The third way

As all humans have a conscience, most people have the ability to discern true joy from misery or self-loathing from love.These sensations are so natural and instinctive that wanting joy is automatic,however for the large majority of people true joy seems or feels impossible and non-existent. When analysed and observed it can be said that there are three ways to joy and lasting contentment . All of these ways come up in human life however it’s the third way that is unusual and rare. The third way is proven to work time and time again, and after centuries and generations it is a time tested and proven method for even for our own generation.

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It’s not all about how you look

Life isn’t always about aesthetic. I for one am obsessed with how things appear and look. But recently after the birth of my daughter and moving back to my old place rather than living with my mother in her immaculate place, I was humbled.

I felt really really down because my home wasn’t perfect. I didn’t have the latest gadgets and things were getting a bit dusty and old, as well as that I felt extremely unattractive and out of shape. I mean it got to the point where I avoided at all cost people visiting me and even the father of my child coming over to see my daughter.It wasn’t until I had a conversation with a helpline worker over the phone that I came to the conclusion that life is not all about looks and that the pleasure and the uplift in my mood could simply from having a conversation. I was able to gain a clearer more positive perspective on my life.

I realised just how grateful and lucky id been and it didn’t cost anything,it didn’t take months of saving or slaving away,life gave it to me for free. The gift of my creativity,writing talking, reading,watching and just experiencing the connection and love that I have with my daughter was more then anything I could have ever ask for. I realised life is about living in the moment and taking it all in without judgement living in the bliss of the present moment,that’s what matters and that’s what’s important.

Don’t forget to love yourself

One thing in life that everybody wants is to feel loved and be loved. But unfortunately for many love from a spouse from friends family people can often fail us or disappoint us however the easiest thing to do and the best and wisest thing to do is to love yourself,love yourself unconditionally.

You can love yourself the way a father would love you or you can love yourself in a way mother would love you.Be your biggest fan life will become much more interesting and exciting if you treated yourself with a little more kindness. life would be full of joy rather than anxiety because you are accepting yourself. You are your own best therapist,there are lots of things you can do to occupy your time and to keep you distracted from your own negative thoughts. Negative thoughts cause negative emotions and negative emotions can cause negative behaviour patterns and habits. Positive thoughts create positive emotions which lead to positive behaviour and a life that reflects this.

Start today with being who you want everyone else to be towards you and watch your emotions change watch your behaviour change and as a result watch your life change

Sometimes you have to make sacrifices

When you really want something sometimes you have to make sacrifices to get that thing,sometimes you want a lot of things and therefore you have to make a lot of painful sacrifices and patiently wait for those things to come to fruition.

You can choose not to have anything at all,you can choose to give up on your dreams and you can choose to be content with nothing that’s okay but you would be very unhappy and miserable.

Life is for living, life has meaning and life is a lesson,we get lessons in life it’s something that we need to accept and it’s something that we have to all live with whether we like it or not.

Do yourself a favour make a decision to prioritise your needs and your wants and to make sacrifices to achieve those needs and wants, put yourself first and love yourself enough to sacrifice pleasures or people that don’t get you to your goal or make you a better person put yourself first.

Fastest quickest and easiest way to make money online at home or abroad

This advice may disappointment you but the quickest way to make money is to save save save even if it is very little every penny counts. Think about it if you would save one third of your income from the beginning of last year during the lockdown how much would you have had in your pocket today?

Time flies one year is nothing one-year really is a very short time but in that year you could save a lot of money that could help you in so many ways you could achieve so much. Its better to plan to save for the future then to watch time fly by and realise so much could’ve been accomplished and you would’ve been happier. Take time to invest in yourself and the quickest and easiest way to do that is through making a budget and putting money aside for your future and realising the future is here right now it will fly by!

In a nutshell think like a rich person they save and invest. The easiest way to save is to start with what you have and put it aside and the best way to invest is in yourself.

So start today by saving and investing in yourself.

Don’t forget to love yourself

One thing in life that everybody wants is to feel loved and be loved. But unfortunately for many love from a spouse from friends family people can often fail us or disappoint us however the easiest thing to do and the best and wisest thing to do is to love yourself,love yourself unconditionally.

You can love yourself the way a father would love you or you can love yourself in a way mother would love you.Be your biggest fan life will become much more interesting and exciting if you treated yourself with a little more kindness. life would be full of joy rather than anxiety because you are accepting yourself. You are your own best therapist,there are lots of things you can do to occupy your time and to keep you distracted from your own negative thoughts. Negative thoughts cause negative emotions and negative emotions can cause negative behaviour patterns and habits. Positive thoughts create positive emotions which lead to positive behaviour and a life that reflects this.

Start today with being who you want everyone else to be towards you and watch your emotions change watch your behaviour change and as a result watch your life change

Enjoy the simple things

Life can be very very challenging, it can be difficult when what we want hasn’t happened for us. We need to realise that we are special with or without the things that we desire. We are valuable and we have a purpose for existing.

Sometimes we forget the little things, The things that are important and the things that we should be very grateful for. We often take many things for granted for example our health or even the beauty that surrounds us. We could live a very satisfying life taking pleasure in simple things.

Try to live each day in appreciation try to enjoy something if it doesn’t cost you anything it could be writing it could be singing it could be reading something that’s effortless for you do appreciating every moment.

Knowledge is Power

There is a famous scripture that says my people perish for their lack of knowledge. Most people in life want power and we think that power comes from money, fame your beauty or some other force. Knowledge is power and for you to be powerful in life you need to educate yourself.

Educate yourself in the things that matter to you, in the things that you’re passionate about and try to acquire basic general knowledge.It’s very important because your life will reflect your knowledge.Sometimes we think the richest people or the most successful people don’t know a lot but you’ll be surprised they do they just don’t know it in the way we do,they’ve acquired their knowledge through life experience through the hardships that they’ve been through.

Now we have an array of different technology if you don’t have the money to go to school and learn you can literally become an expert overnight through audible books or even YouTube. There are essays online which are free to read and written by credible well respected leaders in their field. So there is no excuse you can learn how to heal yourself you can learn how to become an expert in hair all for free on the Internet for a very low price so choose today what you wish to be and go ahead and start learning on that subject before you know it you’ll be doing great things.

Living on borrowed time

So if you haven’t figured this out yet we are living on borrowed time. Life on earth is way too short to think that you’re undeserving of good things. To live as though there is no meaning. Get this life is meaning.

You are so so important and you are the centre of the universe that’s what I think. The infinite impossibility of you actually being on this earth is so incredible. I mean the chance of you being here is incredible. You are literally a miracle life made you and life conceived you.

Anxiety and depression gets the best of us most of the time and often times I stop and notice that I feel sad I feel angry about the injustices that surround us and think what’s the point.

The point is we are here so we can either sulk and cry and die on our short borrowed time or we can be curious,we can be present and we can make changes we can live in the fulfilment of our desires without guilt and without shame. Choose to embrace who you are and choose to accept who you are.

I live with purpose

Choose to live with purpose living with purpose means living with dignity it means living to your highest values as a human being.I think every human being has an innate kind of inner angelic consciousness within them,like we are highly moral beings we grow up as innocent babies and if you see a baby they are completely innocent,completely dependent upon the people that are looking after them. It breaks our hearts when we see babies cry it breaks our hearts when we see babies orphaned, because there is something about a human being that has value that makes you want to respect them

I think living with purpose means focusing our attention on the now, living within your present moment and embracing who you are, accepting who you are and realising that life is a gift, life is awesome life is precious and life is a mystery. We might not know all the answers now but one day I believe we will know. Until that day comes we need to live with the highest intention our highest morality and our highest dignity

I think sometimes we can get so distracted by the chaos in the suffering and pain of life that we forget who we are. I think that we need to focus on our present moment so that we can have an inner peace. life is a gift but it’s how you live life and how you navigate life is the question and what should be the one thing that we want in this life? Is it not peace and contentment and that comes with living in the present moment with purpose with dignity and with morality.

Aside now having peace and contentment doesn’t always mean having an easy life it means having the knowledge and the awareness and the revelation within yourself that all is as it is I’m excepting who I am I’m excepting my reality and I’m living within the present moment with what I have and with what I feel and know to be true within myself and it’s as simple as that